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    It all started last year ( grade 10 ), I was a newcomer in this school..I blended in easily with the “ popular “ group. One day, this guy from the group added me and started messaging me. He kept on asking me for nudes for 2 weeks and I was so pressured...so yeh I sent him...( that was in November 2018 ) then in May 15th, before my English final exam..I knew that my nudes got leaked ( I didn’t know he took a screenshot ) I kept on denying it because face wasn’t in it, but some people believed and some not..I got through it and I enjoyed summer 2019..BUTTT last Friday an unknown phone number called me and threatened me to leak my nudes if I don’t send him nudes on whatsapp...I got so many phone calls from different phone numbers but I blocked them all...it haunts me and I feel so guilty...I just wanna rewind this moment so I could never do that...I’ve had anxiety attacks since what happened...I mean there’s no proof it’s me but some people know that it’s me...
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    Hey there. Thanks for coming to us for support. We are here to help you through this

    I'm sorry to hear you've had to go through this. This sounds like it's been really hard for you. It's completely normal to feel guilty and like you want to rewind the moment. However, you didn't do anything wrong here, so you're not to blame. The other person completely abused your trust. As you're a minor, the other person having your pics and sending them on is a crime. Also, this is classed as revenge porn which might be illegal depending on where you live. This should be reported to the police. Did the person give you the number they want you to send the nudes too? If so, you could pass that number on. You might find this support guide helpful btw: https://www.ditchthelabel.org/what-t...-selfie-leaks/

    In a way, I'm glad that you can't be identified from the pictures. I know its horrible that they're still out there, but I guess this is a positive in this dark situation. You're doing the right thing by speaking out about this. This will help with the anxiety attacks that you've been having. You might find this helpful too: https://www.ditchthelabel.org/10-qui...-panic-attack/

    Let me know what you think of all this. I hope you can report this as it will show them how unacceptable their behaviour is. Stay strong

    - Monsoon
    Last edited by Monsoon; 16-05-2020, 01:59 PM.

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