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    Hi, My name is Brittany. I recently lost a Korean friend. We have known each other for 8 years. After she met me first time in person, she told me she does not like my personality and we are no longer friends. It makes really sad and guilty because before she told me she will like me when she meets me and have fun with me. She cut me off like this makes me so sad and not even want to talk with me. She told me before she felt like I was her true friend. I dont care if my friends have different personalities. This is what makes us unique. I feel so bad and guilty like something is wrong with me. I dont know how to feel better about myself. She was so excited to meet me and stay with her at her house then when I came back home she sent this to me. I feel so bad she hates me.
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    bpeden3 This must have hurt a lot and you don't deserve that, especially that being said to you in such a direct and harsh way. You deserve friends that value you and spending time with you, so although it was very hurtful, there is nothing wrong with you and you shouldn't feel guilty. Sometimes friendships just don't work out and it sounds like you really value different characteristics in people, she doesn't. Take the time to work on friendships where there is mutual respect and gradually this hurt will fade away.

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        Originally posted by bpeden3 View Post
        Hi, My name is Brittany. I recently lost a Korean friend. We have known each other for 8 years. After she met me first time in person, she told me she does not like my personality and we are no longer friends. It makes really sad and guilty because before she told me she will like me when she meets me and have fun with me. She cut me off like this makes me so sad and not even want to talk with me. She told me before she felt like I was her true friend. I dont care if my friends have different personalities. This is what makes us unique. I feel so bad and guilty like something is wrong with me. I dont know how to feel better about myself. She was so excited to meet me and stay with her at her house then when I came back home she sent this to me. I feel so bad she hates me.
        This happened to me last year! It was really horrible at the time and I thought it was all my fault but I talked about it with my other friends and they made me feel better and I've pretty much accepted it now. I was sad but I know I didn't do anything wrong.

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